In this 13th installment of the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” series Brian and Laurel talk with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about ways to spice up your sex life, managing older children in the home and a sex life, and coping with physical ailments that often come with age like erectile dysfunction.

For more discussion on cultivating desire and making bedroom decisions as a couple go check out Part 3 from this series, or get a copy of the book Jennifer mentioned—101 Nights of Great Sex: Sealed Secrets. Anticipation. Seduction.

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a psychotherapist who focuses on issues surrounding female sexuality and feminism within the LDS framework. She holds a PhD in Counseling Psychology from Boston College where she wrote her dissertation on LDS women and sexuality. She has taught college-level classes on human sexuality and currently has a private therapy practice in Chicago. In her private practice, she primarily works with LDS couples on sexuality and relationship issues. She also teaches online courses to LDS couples on these issues. She is married, has three kids, and is an active member of the LDS church.

Be sure to check out Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s site her Valentines sale for 20% off all her courses.

If you have a question for the good doctor you can comment below OR send an email to

Music: Sugar Blues (Pubic Domain)

Brian was born and raised in Northern Utah and is now working as a chemist in Ohio. He has one wife and three children. He currently serves as the ward hall monitor. He likes to eat good food, and build cool things.

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