"...At this point, “When you gonna have kids” became very painful to hear. As did some children references at church--the testimonies about having children, and being blessed with children, and how happy they are and how much God loves them because of the children they were sent...Kind of like when you have a sunburn and everyone seems to want to pat you on the back. Church became a big source of pain and insensitivity at times...." Douglas talks about infertility.